... på vilket som smärtar mest: Att säja nånting och önska att du inte hade

gjort det, eller att inte säja nånting och önska att du hade gjort det?
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Oh... too complicated for me today, but I feel that it hurts the most to say nothing and wish that you had. There is a silence which kills relationships. And if you say something bad and untrue you can always regret it and ask for apologize. The worst and most destructive way is to be silent and not dare to take the fight with words. At least that is my experience in my life. Too many times I have been an coward and not honest person escaping from people and necessary verbal battles. That kind of tactics and attitude have made me very lonely. But now in my middleage I have had become more and more mature and brave. It´s never too late to become the one you really are and finally wake up and whisper, speak and shout!: ) <3