Watching others opinons
Is like fixating your eyes on the rings on the water from your own stroke of oars
Watching the rings will get you nowhere
Rowing will
Keeping a steady course
Will

Waiting for the wind to take you to your dream place
Won't happen
Unless
You are a dandelion seed
You need to know somewhat your mission and your direction
You are the captain
Of your own ship
You decide the direction