Why does love hurt

I was taught that love comes with pain and it does, but it shouldn't in the way my past taught me.

Love as a parent comes with the pain of seeing your child go through life's struggles that's out of your reach to change.

Love as a friend comes with the pain of not being able to do more for them or protect them like you want to.

Love as a partner comes with the pain of knowing and seeing how broken their inner child is.

Love as a community comes with the pain of everyones mistreatments and loneliness.

Love comes with pain because we love.