(The text is read by me via the player on the right side if the page below the picture of me) 

Fourteen soldiers

forced in to my house

I was alone there

with my children around me

Fourteen soldiers

all were men

they

didn't do what

they did

with love

Fourteen soldiers

In front of my children

So you say

that the evil

can turn to good

If only you give

the evil ones

your love

So that is what you say

No ma'm

No, no no

No love

could've stopped that violence

Fourteen soldiers

They were fourteen men

Then my husband came home

He didn't want me anymore

to be in his house

I had to leave

immediately

'Cause now

I was to be condemned

filthy

and destroyed

Shame on me

And you speak about love

That love will win over it all

No ma'm

No no no !

I could never give my love to someone again

I'm terrified

And the children

can't even cry

no more

  http://couchtripper.com/rapedbysoldiers/?cat=139

http://www.gp.se/nyheter/varlden/1.613088-gaddafi

-attackerar-mal-i-tunisien

 https://www.gp.se/nyheter/varlden/1.589792-gaddafi

-styrkor-harjar-i-misrata

en del män,  här i vårt land o i världen, verkar se våldtäkt som lockande och tänker på det eller utför det när det blir tillfälle, som i krig t ex...?? I idrottssammanhang, i gäng, på efterfester, på fester. Internet är fullt av bilder och filmer där kvinnor utnyttjas och våldtas. Kanske det är något som de flesta män stimuleras av i tanken, fantiserar om, blir upphetsade av, njuter av, även om de inte utför det? Det är kanske något normalt.. modernt t o m. Det kanske är vi kvinnor som inte fattar det, bara...?? Ibland blir man så osäker och undrande,så ledsen och  så rädd,  ibland. Kvinna som objekt. Ej som människa.

some men, here in our country and in the world, seems to see rape as alluring and think about it or carrying it when they get the opportunity, as in war, for example ...? In sport, the gangs, the after-party, at parties. Internet is full of pictures and movies where women are exploited and raped. Maybe it is something that most men are stimulated by the idea, fantasize about, get excited by, enjoy, even if they do not carry it? Maybe it's something normal .. modern. Maybe we are women who do not get it, just ...? Sometimes you get so insecure and wondering, so sad and so scared sometimes. Woman as objects. Not as a human

Mode. Rape fashion. (isn't disgusting...?)

 Citerat:

A study of young men in Norway reveals disturbing attitudes towards rape.
The study by Norwegian University of Science and Technology (NTNU) found that one in three believed that a woman can enjoy a rape.
This is extremely alarming.
The study was based on a survey of 334 students from three high schools in the county.
The study of young attitudes to sexual harassment also showed that one boy in four agreed or strongly agreed that women have a tendency to exaggerate how harmful a rape is, and that one of three believe it is important to assess the victim's past in a rape trial.
I believe the answers express an attitude of sex discrimination.
When one belittles a group it is easier to accept that they are exposed to violence and abuse.

Källa:http://rroffemix.blogspot.com/2008/12/young-men-believe-rape-myths.html

The rape of Lucretia. Målning av Felice Ficherelli

Målning av Tizian

(texten är baserad på en artikel jag läste för några veckor sedan och som grott i mig..., just om en kvinna i en stad i Libyen som blev utsatt av fjorton män, fjorton inhemska soldater och sedan förskjuten, och att hon var en av många många som varit utsatt för samma sak där)